Just shocked and stunned.......

Hi Mummys girl,

Whatever it is dont let it affect your Mum. She has enough on her plate at the moment. I know you will look after her, and yourself. All the best and I hope you can get it sorted out between the Family.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

Hi Mummys Girl

Sorry that on top of the other pressures on you, you have now got new a problem that you feel is so difficult that  you cannot share.

You are doing the right thing in protecting your Mum but at the same time you are placing unnecessary pressures on yourself.

Even if you find it impossible to share here in open forum anything you feel is this devastating I do believe you need to share with someone, a best friend, a relative or even one of the agencies like the Samaritans or even the Mac Support Line here. You could do it in in an annomous way and just end the coversation if things get too tough, I hope you don't -but honestly  you have to share with someone.

Do not know if you hold religious views, maybe even talk to someone from your Church. You must be able to find someone you trust. who will listen and not judge.

You are already coping with so much - nothing can be so bad that is not dealt with better by seeeking advice form a trusted person.

Hope you find a solution and do not take all the pressure yourself.

Hugs

J xx

Thank you Sarsfield and John. It's more the fact that it is personal to the family but also you do not who reads these things and who knows you. I have a good support network and as a family we are all going to support each other, it does not involve my immediate family and they are closer to mum than me if that makes any sense. Sorry if I am being vague but just need to make sure that mum does got leant on too much and tired out. x

(((((((((((((big soft  comforting hugs)))))))))))) LIZ xxxxxx

Hi Mummy's Girl

Only you can make the decision about keeping to your self or sharing. I notice you have made several friends on here so the only othere suggestion I vae is send 1 of these a personal message - you already know how supportive they can be - take care please

hugs

J xx