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  • Thank you all, much appreciated

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    I would like to thank you all.  Unfortunately i was not on the site long, but i did get a great deal of support and kind words from you all.  Last week i felt so alone at times i needed to 'talk' to anyone.  I found this site and poured out my thoughts, was good to release some of the emotion i was going through. 

    I wont name you all who gave your time and kind words to my blogs, (i would hate to miss anyone out…

  • my mum died today

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    although i only started to put a few blogs in recently, i thought i would let you all know i really appreciated you support and help

    I didnt get my mum to hospital to have her blood transfusion, after talking to her dr i decided with my brother we wanted her to go to hospice.  I did arrange this at 12 lunch time, however i bathed my mum, assisted her to front room, and she died within 10 mins (12.50) 34 days after my…

  • tomorrow i take my mum for a blood transfusion

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    Spent a kinda relaxed weekend with mum, having had an horrendous week where she was bitter and angry and wouldnt talk, yesterday i sat next to her, put my arms around her, told her how much she means to us all, told her i cant imagine what she is thinking, but talked about her having the blood transfusion, promised her we wont make her stay any longer than needed, but also stressed she is very weak and the hospital may…

  • how can i get my mum to talk instead of shutting me out

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    FormerMember

    In 2007 my mum had breast cancer at the age of 69.  She needed radiotherapy only and made a full recovery, she went for screenings and only had to go once a year as everything was ok.  Mean while from 2008 she started suffering from frequent water infections, would complain of a pain round her front to half way round her back on the left side.  She must of put a water sample in every week fortnight for almost 18 months.