beareved

Hi Somissed,

I can feel your pain. Yes it does take a long time to see the light at the end of the tunnel. But Jim will be beside you all the way. Nights are very lonely but Jim will be watching over you. Its a Long road ahead but here on this site you will make more friends. If you want to chat,cry,or just roar and shout. we will be here for you. You will never be alone. Look after yourself. May Jim R.I.P.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

hi somissed

as sarsfield says this is the site to come to i have cancer and without this site and these lovely people who are always there for me i dont know how i would be able to cope i come on here and do my blog whether its a moan a cry a whinge or just a general blog there is someone who understands how i feel because they have been here before and can offer comfort and support

your jim will always be by your side and will never leave you spiritually he will guide you forward and help you make new friends he has sent you to this site im sure where you can make new friends

yes its easy to say life goes on and sadly yes it has to for you but you will be strong and cope and it does get easier as time goes on

always here for you when you need a friend

love and hugs jen xxxxx

Hi, I lost Ed in October last year and know how you feel. Like jen says Jim will always be with you and we have to do our best as they did fighting the cancer. I also say the days are long, the evenings are long and then there are the nights! I try to tire myself out as it helps me sleep but it is hard cause the pain is always there. i guess we learn to live with it but it helps to talk on here. There are groups for the bereaved on here to join too. I talk to Ed all the time, it is hard to break the habit of a lifetime so nothing wrong with that. i hug his photo too. I hope you have family but I found making new friends at an exercise class helped as they didnt talk about Ed and it has allowed me to a new way forward. Take care of yourself, Im sure you are doing well, it just takes time to cope with and we will always have times of feeling lost but also times of being ok. love leisha xxxxxxx ((((((((((((((h))))))))))))))))))

Hi, I was told that talking to yourself is fine,you always get the right responses. The problems come when you have an arguement. Seriously , I hope you continue to cope in the way your Jim will be proud of. Take Care with love camio

i lost my husband 13 weeks ago. it has been hard i used his t-shirt while in bed. it helps that i can still smell him and i feel close to him. life has to go on, adjusting to life without our loved ones, trying to make sense of what we need to do to carry on, getting into a new routine of being single again, not sharing life together anymore, being scared of facing the future. life is a struggle at times, thanks god i have the kids to help us all along the way, we are going to mexico 19/3 in memory of steve as we never got there it will be really weird without him but i'm sure he will be waatching over us and expecting us to enjoy it.i don't know how we cope but i do know we have no choice in the matter. i'm going to go back to work this week so that will be a task in it's self, sometimes life just seems so unfair for us