Its so Sad..

Unfortunately, I found my own sister upset in this way.  We were both diagnosed with cancer - her diagnosis came two years before mine, and she went through the full treatment - radiotherapy, chemo, double mastectomy and hysterectomy - whereas I refused chemo - had 1 bout of rad before my mastectomy and BSO - my sister feels I had it 'easy' and now won't talk to me at all.  We can not control how other people react to us, what we can do is control how we react to them.  It is sad when people's anger is targeted towards you in this manner, but it is something they need to sort out for themselves.  Feel proud of your own success in getting through it.

Jill - so sorry you have been put through this, I have known you ever since I joined mac community and you have helped me a lot especially in my early dark days.

Obviously dont mention a name of this person here in public - but feel free to PM me any time.

Please come back on chat again soon and don't let this effect you too much.

Mal
xxx

I remember you Jill and know you are a lovely warm genuine person and I'm so sorry some idiot upset you. As you say, she was drunk and drunk people seldom make sense. Don't let one person stop you from being with the rest of us in Macland.

Best wishes,

KateG

Jill:

I am so sorry that this has happened to you.  I know who you are referring to and have had a similar experience with her.  I feel bad now that I did not report her at the time, perhaps it would have spared you this hurt.  I actually believe it was you who came to her defense on that occasion and that makes what she has now done to you all the more despicable. 

Please don't let her chase you off.  Consider the source.  She has serious issues aside from Cancer.

Massive Hugs

Pam

Pam,

It's always worth reporting these people to admin who can then act and if necessary block them from the site,

Colin xxx