Hi hun I am so sorry to read what is happening to you. This site is a good place to express feelings and get support. I am sure there are many people on here who have had similar experiences and would be only too happy to help you through this dreadful time. I myself had bladder cancer and thankfully I was a lucky one, I had surgery and I am grateful to still be here. I am thinking of you and send lots of hugs your way. Stay strong hun xx

Hi this is my first time at responding to any of these blogs but it realy hit home with me. My dad was diognosed with lung cancer about 8 weeks ago of which he has been in hospital for 5 of those weeks. A week and a half ago he was released from the hospital with no worning to any of us, we were just told he would be home at 5pm be there. That night i was with my dad untill 3 am he was so confused and upset he did not know what to do, i called the district nurse out they were brill. From that point it has been down hill, the hospital said they sent him home to get rid of infections that he kept picking up so that he could get well to have chemo.  This seems to be a fob off to me as just in 1 week he has lost another stone in weight even tho hes eating loads, his pain has increased tenfold and he is now not himself, he forgets what he is doing how things work who we are. me and my brother are trying realy hard to help him but we are getting so tired, my brother gose in the morning when my dad calls him 5am some mornings, he then gose and dose a full 10-12 hour shift at work, i then go round to my dad, but i am disabled myself so cant do a greate deal. i stay with him till about 6 go home for an hour then go back till we can get him in bed of which 2night is 1am, he was crying because he thought i was chaseing him.  Sorry for babling on but im with you where do we turn to me and my brother cant keep this up, we both feal he should be in hospital but is this why they discharged him because they new what was to come?????? if any1 could help plz do thank you