2 days to go...

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To results day, but I am sticking to all your advice and keeping myself positive.

But many questions run through my head...

What if I need Chemo?  Is it painful? Will I be able to have children in the future if I needed Chemo? Will this affect my friends my family?

Its still all a blur to me and what with losing my Uncle to liver cancer a few months back, this has very much shocked the family. I feel like they have to go through the worries again. I don't know why I keep blaming myself, I just wish that it would return to normality, but it can't.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    ive still got fingers etc crossed for you hun ........ but .... i sure look funny wiv me eyes crossed all the time !!!!!! hehe

    try and have a great couple of days ..... have some fun if poss n forget ........ you will probably be imagining everything that ISNT going to happen

    good luck xoxox

    xNx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Kate,

    Come on now less of the negative thinking and self blame. Your right wait until you get the results,and

    no matter what. You are on the right site where if you want to ask questions,need help with strength and understanding. Your in the rightplace. everyone on

    this site Cancer Patients and Carers,we are all here

    as a Family to help one and other through the Good times and the Bad Times. Somebody will always be here if needed. So lets not jump the gun. You have to use your patience. All the Best.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    My fingers are also crossed for you.  None of those questions can be answered till the big question is answered- and my advice to you is not to go looking for the answers to them yet.  I'm so hopeful for you that you'll not need to know the answers anyway!

    Blaming yourself is totally natural, but remember, you've not done anything wrong- families worry and it's because they love you.  

    Have a good few days, I hope everything goes well.  

    I'm sorry I can't say anything more helpful or constructive, all I can say is I understand how excruciating the wait is.  Fingers crossed.lx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I think we tend to feel guilty when this happens my love and yet we have done nothing wrong, no one asks for any of this. I know it is very hard and the waiting drives us all mad, but try and stay positive. I wish you all the best love and have every thing crossed for you. Take care...love Carol x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Katie blame yourself for what? all the questions you are asking yourself write down and when u go for results ask them best write them down as we all forget when we get there !  you will get fed up hearing this word stay POSITIVE  at first you think sod off !!  its hard  to think how can i stay positive  but it does help !!  plus you dont know what the doc will say you may not need further treatment but unfortunatly everyone who is told they are ill there imagination runs away with them and evertything seems ten times worse !!  we are all rooting for you you are a young girl with your whole life ahead of you good luck sweetheart my thoughts are with you xxxxxx