Hi

dear sheenakay,

I am so sorry to hear about your partner's diagnosis, and that your world has been turned completely upside down. so many of us on this site have, and do, feel exactly the same, so you have come to the right place for support.

What kind of cancer does he have? There are many threads which deal with more specific issues, and it may be that you will find more appropriate support on one of those.

Please post back and let us know - some of us who have been around for quite a while may be able to point you in the right direction.

sue xx

Hi Sheena,

Dont feel alone - pop into chatroom and you are likely to find a lot of support.  What you are feeling is completely normal.

Jan xx

Good seeing you in chat.  The site often boots you off line so hope you find your way back to the room xx

Hi Sheena,

As the others have said what you are feelingh is totally normal and it really helps to talk about it, I see above that you've popped into chat and this has been a great support to me and I hope it will be for you.

Hope to chat to you in the future

take care

Vikki x

Hi Sheena, I am feeling the same as you, Mum has lung cancer since finding out in March its been one emotional roller coaster ride,  My brother passed away 4 years ago and I feel like ive just got over loosing him and now bang another load of heartbreak, I live over three hundred miles from mum so have sort of moved in with her and come back home for a long weekend every month to see my boyfriend, he has been supportive but doesnt understand how sad I feel at times.  take care & kind thoughts to all of you out there.  Janey Xx