IT'S OFFICIAL.... I HAVE BREAST CANCER

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It's official.  Went to the hospital today for the results of my biopsies I had done.  Dr told me I have breast cancer.  They found a nodule on my breast too, but that's benign.  Dr told me that as the nodule was benign, they do not need to do a mastectomy, they can do a lumpetcomy (unless I wish to have a mastectomy).   Asked the Dr a few questions, then went to chat with a Breast Nurse.  She gave me loads of info about the disease and made me an appt to go back next week, when she will be able to tell me whether the cancer is linked to my hormones.  If this is the case, I will have to go on a drug for 5 years to stop me producing oestrogen.  She hopes to be able to give me the date for my op next week to.

 

Nurse told me that I may have to have chemo due to my age (41)........

Nurse also told me that whether I opt to have a mastectomy and treatment or a lumpectomy and treatment, the survival rate is the same........... don't think I'll be having a mastectomy then!!!!  Bugger that... not if I have to......

Do feel upset and anxious about the fact that I actually DO have cancer, but also feel extremely lucky.  I feel lucky that I have a choice as to whether to have a mastectomy or not... I feel in control somewhat as I do have a choice and it could have been so much worse. :)

Looks as though I do need this site after all!!!  :)

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    so sorry scoobs about your diagnosis. The choice will completely help you feel in control of the awful situation. This site will really be helpful  to you too. Stay strong. Love to you. ((((hugs))))

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Scoobs, Sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Like you I have breast cancer and am now four weeks post lumpectomy.  Am waiting for my chemo date, thats the next step forwards.  

    I think all the emotions you are feeling are healthy and normal.  I love your positive attitude, I really do believe that helps us to get through this, which at first feels like you've walked into a nightmare!!

    This is a wonderful site, full of like minded people who are going through exactly the same thing.  This really helped me in the early days just reading other peoples positive comments lifts you.

    I know that you probably feel you have been hit by a sledge hammer but you will make it through and we are all here to support you.

    Best wishes, stay positive, :-) xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi scoobs, sorry to hear your news....this place is wonderful the people are great and supportive... i know the choices you face are difficult... and everyone is different, i have breast cancer and my mum too... even though we have the exact same type our prognosis is different, my advice to you is read my blogs... and other peoples blogs who have breast cancer.... you will see a wide range of stories, but one thing is always the same, positive thinking and facing it head on helps... hopefully someones story will help you get through, and its not all doom and gloom.. we can laugh at ourselves and each other ,

    p.s i was 38 years old, when i found out, and have just had my 50th birthday last month...

    good luck, stay strong

    liz xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello Scoobs

    Sorrry to hear your news but at least now you know,and once you get your date for surgery you will have something to focus on.It's the waiting for result that is the worst part of all of this.

    I was 53 when diagnosed,last year,and as my cancer was 100% oestrogen positive I am on "femara" for 5 years and so far have had no reall side effects.

    Wishing you well

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hiya scoobs

    just wanted to let you know my sister had BC and a lumpectomy ......... 20yrs ago ....... shes still very very well !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    good luck hun - xNx