saying hello

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Hello to one and all, this is the first time of doing anything like this so am a bit confused by it all.  I joined the site as my mum was diagnosed with lung cancer in december 2009, and things have been deteriorating quite quickly, she has already had a stent inserted to superior vena cava and also one into her right brochus, she has had fluid drained off her lung, and has been given a one off dose of radiotherapy, which is the only treatment they can offer as she is already to weak to have chemo. she is now on oxygen, and taking regular oromorph and steriods to help with the breathlessness which is quite distressing to us all at times.   She is currently be cared for at home by my dad and me, with the help and support of the rest of the family. Sounds quite distressing  really but she gives us a laugh as her memory is very poor now and she says the funniest things, then laughs at herself as she realises what she has said.  Enough rambling for now but thanks for the opportunity to get connected to others is similar situations, speak again soon :))

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Sue

    Sorry to welcome you here. My husband has terminal bowel cancer, diagnosed in November and also deteriorating rapidly.

    This is a good place for support and knowing that there are other people going through what you are.

    Very sorry to hear about your mum and so pleased she has support from you, your dad and family. This will make her illness much more bearable if that's the right word. And how good it is to be able to laugh. This was brought home to me tonioght and it really helped me. Nothing to be ashamed of anyway.

    So even though the cancer is different and the circumstances are different I understand your feelings and emotions and just want you to know that there is someone else who understands.

    Much love

    Claire x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks Claire, and sorry to hear about your husband I hope you have good support from your family and friends.

    At times like this laughter can feel wrong, but we need to remember good times, because although it is sad at present we have so many good memories to look back on.

    Good luck to you and your husband.

    Sue x