I have not been on here for a while but mum has not got long now and I am not coping well.I am ok in front of her and other family members.When I am on my own I am crying all the time and feel so low.Not sure how I will be when she has gone.
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Hi Sandy. I'm so sorry to hear about your mum and that you are having such a tough time. My mum has also deteriorated recently and I'm like you; ok in front of mum and family/friends but in bits when I'm on my own. Take care of yourself. Thinking of you and your lovely mum at this difficult time.
My thoughts are with you and your Mum tonight. Its
hard when the time comes and you have to face the
Death of a loved one especially your Mum. I hope she is at Peace and Painfree. When your Mum passes on. Have a word with your GP and he could make an appointment with a councellor who deals
in how you can cope with the death of a Loved one.
I write this with feeling and sympathy for you and your Family. I do hope it helps in some way.
your in east yorkshire...just wondering where your mums had her treatment with you not been far from me in north yorkshire...is your mum having any treatment at present...
the specialists, your mums mac nurse or the chemo unit / hospital were she had her treatment should be there for you if you have any questions or need any help or support..
hopefully your mum and her family have the support of the medical people involved in her treatment and care...
all the best to you all and may things go as good as possible and the family and your mum
So sorry to hear your mum is near the end Sandy. It must be the hardest thing. I know what you mean about being strong infront of her and then breaking down when you are on your own; I have been there with Dad and its not easy, but its amazing how we have that strength to do that and its out of love, I think, that we can.
I hope your mum is comfortable and you have a good medical team around you, supporting mum and you as a family.
