phew i've had enough

having cancer is not easy but i have though a lot about this and as the person with cancer i have decided its up to us to turn the situation around. i do not want people feeling sorry for me and we have to show just like the brave soldiers on the front line we have to be strong not just for our selfs but for our family as well. i am not going to be beaten. never! and i am going to get through this. so smile and be braver than ever. do what you have to do to survive but bloody smile what ever.

Thanks for the info.I am in the same boat.I hope too hear from the doctor tomorrow as to when I start my treatment.Radical treatment of Chemo plus Radiotherapy has been sugested for me.I have a Non-small cell cancer-tumour.I have been at my wits end since the start of febuary when it was dicovered.I dont know what too expect?

Stay positive Rocky all the best never give up...Moosh.

Right guys, I am a boot up the bum. I should have been long gone but I made it into remission for a year and now my cancer is back and once again I shall fight it and keep doing so, knowing it will return again. This is so hard for all of us. I am lucky because I have been there and done it, so I know what to expect. Get your boxing gloves on and join me, we fight this together......love Carol x

the fear of the unknown if often far worse than being told your prognosis (however bad).  We lie awake torturing ourselves.

Once we have a diagnosis and a plan of action, we can focus....that helped me a lot I must say!

Whatever happens, whatever you have to go through, however you feel (good or bad) your new cyber army of supporters are ready and waiting to be deployed.

Use us and abuse us - we have the broadest shoulders and the biggest hearts.

Love & strength

Debs xx