Feeling tearful

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FormerMember

27 Sep 2010

Hi all, I have to confess I haven't written for a while since my Mum was diagnosed with Non Hodgkinsons two years ago. We have recently found out she has a second cancer now in her breast so she is going in for surgery on Friday then following up with radiotherapy. I have to say I am absolutely petrified about the whole thing. She is incredibly strong but it has also really affected my Dad as all of a sudden there is something in life he has no control over. I feel really low at the moment as I don't know what to do to help apart from be there. It is also really hard trying to talk to my friends about the way I feel as I am a really private person and no overly good at expressing my emotions.

Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks

FormerMember over 14 years ago

You could try talking to someone outside of your friends or family circle. You could try the Macmillan helpline as a starting point or even your GP may be able to put you in touch with the right agencies. Another thing you could do is start writing a diary, that way you are getting your feelings out and written down without having to talk openly to people. I hope you do find a way to express your emotions, I was very closed when I first got diagnosed as I thought I had to be strong and not upset anyone but the more I started talking and opening up the easier it got.

All the best

Chrissi x
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Sam,

Well you made the first right move if you want to talk to people there are plenty on this site only too willing to listen , and help in anyway we can. If you want to talk there is always someone here. We will give you all the Love and Support and Understanding if you what it. So dont be afraid to post a message or if anything concerns you. Just let us know and we will see if we can help.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx
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