im so sad at the minute

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hi everyone, got bad news about mam the other day they are not offering anymore treatment as mam is to weak, needless to say my heart is breaking just really struggling to come to terms with it.  since bringing mam home from hospital she has become very confused and dis-orientated, its really hard to see mam in this way and i cry myself to sleep ever night just fed up with the whole lot. has anyone else experienced the confusion situation and any advice how to deal with it? thank you for reading this xx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi, i lost my dear mum to cancer on my sons 18th birthday 2008, all i can say spend quality time with her, lay on the bed and hold her hand and talk about anything that you dearly would like to say, these times are precious, i hold these memories very close to my heart and they give me great comfort. we opened up our hearts and mum talked about her wishes and we shared precious thoughts. thinking of you at this time, xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Casey.  I lost my mum this time last year.  When she was moved to the hospice and we were told that there was no more treatment to be had, I felt as if my world had collapsed.  So I got out a bit of paper, and wrote down every funny memory we had together, ranging from her walking me to school as a young boy through to my wedding day, and we sat and laughed over them.  You won't get a chance again to tell your mam everything you want to, about how much she means to you, so cherish this opportunity.  In the end, my mum was in such pain that I was consoled by the fact that when she passed away, here pain was finished and she was in a better place.  

  • Hi Sarah

    Am so sorry to hear about your dear mam.

    Thinking of you during this very sad time.

    Love

    Sue xxxx