Hello..

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So I am not even sure if it is appropriate that I am on this website - my Mum has got cancer, but it's not like I am on my own (there are the other family members/ family friends etc) or she is in immediate danger. I am just incredibly lonely and scared -  talking about anything with them evidently isn't helping them "deal" with things and I don't want to make things harder for any of them but since it all began last summer I feel like I am slowly sinking and this has got worse now I have moved back home for a few months. I just don't want to waste anyone's time.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ya Pebble,

    You stay right here on this site and you will make more friends than you can imagine. We are here for eachother to talk to understand to be caring and loving. If you have a problem come on the site theres always some one here to talk to about anything you want. The one thing is that you wont be wasting anyones time, that why we are here to help you understand,and to answer any questions

    that need answering. So you stay right here and if you what to sort things out in your mind just let us know.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    thank you Sarsfield... I'm slowly working out how this online community works and you are completely right- it seems wonderful and exactly what's needed. I've kept quiet about it all for so long it is going to take a while to get used to being open about what's going on...

    thank you too for your reassurance.

    all the best wishes in the world,

    Pebble x x x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dear Pebble - having been in a very similar situation to yours, I hope you find that talking about your fears with online friends helpful - it certainly helped me. You may find you can say things to people on her that you couldn't say to your family. Read my profile and add me as a friend if you'd like to. Take care, Val X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Welcome and yes we are here to help you. We are all pals on here and I for one have found this site and my wonderful friends extremely helpful. Take care Love Julie X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Pebble, like the others have said, this site is wonderful in that we can all relate to how each other is feeling. There are obviously times when we don't want to be talking about our feelings with our loved ones as they are going through all the anxieties themselves, so it good to come on here and chat to others in the same boat.

    I hope you find the support you need on here.

    Best wishes, Christine xx