My lovely Dad has been given about 6 weeeks to live .He has bladder cancer which has spread to his adrenal glands, tummy and lungs. He is such a proud and loving old gentleman of 84. We have such a special bond and I am finding it so difficult to accept he will be gone soon. I don't want him to suffer either so its like a double sided coin. I don't want him to die but I don't want him to live in pain either
To add to my heartache my husband has been diagnosed with terminal lung cancer which has spread to his spine so all is very difficult at the moment. Paul's treatment is going well though so we are keeping our fingers crossed that the big C will be held at bay for a while .
I could do with some feed back to keep my chin up and try to live the best way we can . Its all new to us this awfull desease !!!!
