OMG 3 months already

Vicki your dad would not want you to sit and count the days, hours and minutes since you lost him.  He would want you to get out there and enjoy life!  You've had a busy week and really enjoyed your new job and that's what your dad wants for you.  Don't feel sad, your dad will be much happier knowing that you are finding things a little easier.  Caroline XX

Hi Vicki,

Your Dad wouldnt want you sitting around thinking how long it has been since he died. He would want you to do what your doing getting on with your life.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

Hi Vicki, it's six months today since my dad passed away. It's strange how we put timescales on things isn't it? After all, it doesn't matter if they've been gone 1 month, 1 year or 1 decade and beyond, we will always miss them and carry them around with us.

Wishing you all the best, Christine xx

Morning Vicki, the six months have gone because you have been living them with your children, sharing emotions and taking each day one at a time.  I still miss my dad - he died when I was 9 and I am now 50!.  I have a life that I am grateful for, lots of it have been tough, lots have been truly happy - that's what life is all about.  Your dad must be looking down on you now with such pride that you ARE managing and living life.  I sincerely hope one day not too soon you will have more happy thoughts and live happy times.  You are perfectly normal, being sad/angry is okay.  God bless, Ann x

Vicki, when I first joined this site you were very early on in your own grief and yet you took the time to help me through my situation. It in no way  matters if you don not think each week or month how long your dad has been gone, what matters is that slowly life gets back to normal, and your dad would be so proud of what you have achieved in the last 3 months. You are healing slowly and this in no way means that your dad was less important to you or that you miss him any less, just that you are slowly learning to live with it. Hopefuly all the wonderful memories you carry your heart  are foremost in your mind than the sad ones, and your dad would be so proud of you. You give me hope that soon I will start to heal a little too, so dont be angry with yourself, be proud.

Lots of love, Sharonxx