I was feeling quite down all this week,so i was pleased when my best friend rang for a chat.
My friend always seems to know when i need to talk, so when she asked me to visit her
for Christmas i said i was,nt going to do Chirstmas this year,[my husband died july this
year.]You have to, she said, for Del, he loved Chirstmas, dressing up as Santa for the
granddaugters, wrapping the presents he was like a big kid again, he would,nt want
you to pass it by. But i said i could,nt face it this year without him, and me and my
daughters and the granddaughters were going to a pub for dinner on Christmas day as
thay said it would,nt be the same at home without Del.
On wednesday i went to a spirittules church, on my own cos my girls dont do that sort
of thing. Anyway to cut this short, this lady pointed at me and said,Ihave a man hear who
passed away not very long ago, he is telling me to tell you not to worry about him anymore,
he has a big grin on his face and he wants you to have this walnut whip, as he knows how
much you love them. Thats my Del , his smileing because im on a diet, and i cant have any
chocalate. Well his also telling me to tell you,DONT forgo Christmas, he knows you have
been talking about canceling this year, but he said please dont, he will be there with you,
his with you all the time, his holding some roses, as he knows you dont like lillies,so
take them and HE loveS you very much.
Well , what can i say, theres no words i can find that can define my joy, just that i so hope
you dont think i,v gone round the bend, but can you explain all this, or like me cling to the
hope that this is heaven where my darling Del is, and one day we will be togeather again
love PAT. XXXXX
FormerMember
i lost my mum dad and bro inlaw 3 years ago in 7 weeks my mum stay witn me for all most a year ever night at 3 am i fill her sit on my bed drinks her smell tea thats how i know it was my mum . xmas will be hard but do what you fill you can do dont be happy if you fill sad at the time from time to time .and if you fill you need to cry cty it ok to do this.r tell them at say 3 ocklock we have 2 mins to think of your hubby if you talk to all and tell them how you fill this will heppy as thay may fill bad and not wont to be happy so talk to all around you my love . may be when your haveing your dinner do a talk to think of him but tell ever one what you like to do ((((((((((((((((((((((((((( HUGS ))))))))))))))))))))))))) jilly ann
Aw Patricia - thanks every so for sharing that story with us. A story I am sure will offer lots of comfort to sufferers and carers alike. I'm so delighted that you have been given this message and will obviously gain much joy from it. I hope this means that you WILL be going to celebrate Christmas this year after all? Don't be tempted by those walnut whips, you know how smoothe talking these blokes can be when it comes to chocolates, eh? I hope your enriching experience stays with you to bring you and your family great comfort. with lots of love kate xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
