this journey is horrendousfor mumx

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well didnt expect mums final days to be so bad .she was given hours to live on sunday ,still hasnt drunk anything ,cant move speak or swallow and is choking on her own mucus ,its almost like sleep paralysis .at times  she seems to realise whats happening and at others stares relentlessly at the ceiling not responding to anyone or anything.i am just so glad for the hospice staff so that  she can get instant pain relief .the drver isnt enough now and she is constantly needing top ups of morphine.i can only say that although i love my mum with all my heart death will be a welcome release for her now xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    ((hugs)) for you and your family at this time.

    Sian x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I'm so sorry this is such an awful end for your mum. I know how hard it is, my dad's end was what the hospital termed 'a traumatic death'. It won't be long now until she's at peace and there's no more pain for her. I'm thinking of you all and sending you hugs, vikki xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    ((HUGS)) Valxx

    I know how difficult this is, Mum experienced much of the same, need suctioned several times and it is very hard and very intense to sit and listen to. Nothing I can say but you know I am here for you, and yes, the end can be a blessed release for all  xx Dont feel bad for wishing that it comes soon,l did exactly the same. May your mum soon be at peace xxxx

    With love and wishing you strength, Sharonxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    passionflower this shouldn`t be happening, there are meds to stop your mum choking on mucus, they are commonly used in hospices to dry the mucus so that people can sleep peacefully..please ask them to help with this.

    I am so sorry for you all at this difficult and sad time ((hugs)) but these people should be making your dear mum more comfortable and rested..

    Much love to you

    scarlet xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I am so sorry to be reading that your mum's final days are so horrendous.

    Like Scarlet says, she should not be suffering and should be made comfortable at all costs.

    Will be thinking of you.

    Love, Christine xx