dont know what to do?

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hi my friends i have been on a few dates over few months now,yeap talk alot told them all about me and told me about them, went out last thrusday for a nice meal nice walk 9 springs in yeovil somerset, we get on great (anybody think we been togther for years)... but i push her away for her own good (i dont know how long i got left ) she tells me stop beening daff ,it dosent matter how long ,just make the most what we got now, she has got a real nice family,they took to me .. but i feel when i do go (look what im leaving behine) all the heartake etc. i just cant to seem to move on anymore. i dont know what to do? i know i should be happy for what time we got ,but something holding me back and i dont know what it is? maybe i should see a vet lol take care ozzy xx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    my kids dont like her or family ,even tho they got a step dad and more kids .

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ozzy, think long and hard about you want, not anyone else YOU. Carpe Diem - cease the moment Ozzy, do what you feel is right. My opionion for what it is worth, go for it I would say. Enjoy your time together, doing things that maybe you would not do on your own, seizing opportunities. Don't worry about the kids, children are very adaptable and again, should think about what is good for YOU. Whatever you decide, it will be the right decision, keep us informed. Don't panic Mr Mannering (think that is the wrong spelling!!??), take your time to make the decision, if needs be.

    Take care Ozzy.

    Lots of love, Lynne xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ozzy........................Grab some happiness mate while you can, it doesn't matter for how long . She knows your circumstances and that hasn't made her run for the hills now, has it uh.If no one else likes it, tuff, just be happy and enjoy. Me having cancer has ruined my relationship but I am still here, I would love someone to care about me like she does you. Go for it love............love Carol

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    FormerMember

    We all have a limited time on this earth, none of us know how long even if we are given a timescale. if your friend is happy to be with YOU then it is you she wants, having you for a (perhaps) limited time is better than a long time with someone she doesn't particularly want to be with.Give her some happiness and grab some for you.

    Love Jen XX