it does get better

Hi Orange,

Well said on behalf of the Carers on the site. Iam

sure they know exactly what you mean. As a Cancer sufferer myself I dont know how I would survive without mine. Well done.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

hi sarsfield i hope your loved one is taking good care of you thanks for the kind reply love to you and yous from jill

That’s such a good and positive thing you’ve said, Life does seem daunting to me right now but the more I read on here the more inspired I feel to be that stronger person and be the best carer I can. Thank you x  

hi modgirl, thanks for that lovely comment when people reply like that its those little thinks that make you feel good whatever your circumstancesare i hope all goes well for you and your family hugs from jill

Hope I turn out to be as positive as all of you - I think I am still in shock and so is John my husband, he cut the grass yesterday and we have a big garden but he was shattered and had to go to bed.  He wants to carry on as normal and forget about the cancer.  His urologist was cruel and when we first met him for diagnosis He simply said you have aggressive cancer, in your protate, pelvic region, spine and ribs - you are incurable and inoperable and we will try to help you with hormone therapy.  This is your Nurse and she will help you further - goodbye.  Thank God for the oncologist who I fought for so that John coiuld have positive vibes.  I admire everybody on this site for their bravery and strength.  I am taking him to Spain on Monday for two weeks before he commences on the Stampede trial - I think we will have a few drinks

Sheila