Nobody talks about hair regrowth

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Nobody talks about hair regrowth

Ok, so I've been enjoying my wig for about a year now. It's shoulder length, blonde and I absolutely love wearing it.  But……my real hair is growing back, and is now at the stage where it's too long for the wig to be comfortable and the wig is rubbing a bit. so damaging the new hair.

No one talks about how to make the change from wonderful wig to ugly short grey hair!  There's a lot of talk, rightfully so, about the trauma of losing your hair, but I am finding the switch from wig is just as traumatic, in fact even more so as I really dislike the very short style.

So, off I go to my friendly neighbourhood hairdresser and tell her I want the ugly dark and grey (which is growing back way darker than my original natural colour) tuned blonde!  Clearly the hair dye had other ideas and I was left with an underlying soft brown (and a bit too orange if truth be told) with some slightly less orange highlights.  The colour didn't take as it was intended and it looks nothing like the sample.

The following morning I got up, unexpectedly upset and emotional as I'm really not rocking the short orange look. My hairdresser is fab, she fitted me back in an hour later and now I am slightly more blonde (though still not delighted) and if I could get rapid growing shampoo I’d be snapping it up!  She reminded me “some people do actually choose this style you know” with a smile as I left.  Be sure I’ll be back in a few weeks for a 3rd attempt. 

Yes, I know, it's a real first world problem, but I just wanted to acknowledge the emotions continue and the journey never really ends.

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  • Am so sorry to hear this I would feel the same. I do hope the 3rd attempt helps, I am using the cold cap but facing each cycle with trepidation as not all the nurses fit it correctly:( Just had TCHP 3/6 and praying I continue to keep my hair. It does really affect mood and emotions. Have you thought about biotin products to help regrowth? Or even a hair piece rather than a wig to help disguise short cut? Good luck Fingers crossed 

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  • Thanks for sharing this  it looks really interesting 

  • Ooh no, the journey still goes on, I agree the regrowth part isn’t written about much!

    I’ve got the grey/dark grey re growth - when I’ve been brave enough to go out without a hat people have been very kind (couldn’t get on with a wig too many memories of my mums wig…). 

    I’ve done one of the make up workshops from look good feel better and I have to say I was sceptical but I learnt new make up skills I’ve been using regularly since and it literally did what it said - you finish feeling better! 

    Remember if the blond doesn’t work grey is soo the new black!

  • I'm feeling your pain. My hair is growing back a very dirty grey colour. It also seems very sparse at the front so far. Previously I had a blonde (dyed) bob. That is my aim, to get that style back but goodness knows how long that will take - I'm thinking at least 18 months. 

    Ive got a short wig which I don't mind wearing, it's comfortable and a nice colour. People tell me that it doesn't look like a wig. So I'll be sticking with that for the next 6 months I imagine. 

    Im only just over 4 weeks post chemo so very early days for me. I'll be happy when my eyelashes and eyebrows grow back as they are very much missed. 

    Hope your hair gets sorted!