Cancer at Work

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Cancer at Work

There's something very satisfying in the simple act of knowing you've helped someone else and I had the chance to do this on Wear It Pink Day, as a guest panelist on a webinar discussing supporting employees with cancer.

My co-panelist works for an organisation in the UK who specialise in providing employees and managers with support and she shared some shocking stories of what cancer patients have been told by people at work.  I kid you not, things like “when are you going to be back to normal?”   Or “I told the team you're on sabbatical as I don't want to frighten them”.

I was horrified and it's no wonder than c50% of employees are worried about telling their employer about a diagnosis and 1/3 feel isolated at work.

The webinar was great and gave the audience (mostly HR Managers) tips and ideas - provide managers with materials and signpost them to experts like Macmillan, develop internal campaigns to promote cancer awareness, encourage employees to share, listen to cancer patients returning to work and ask when they need to support a phased return, understand recovery is not linear, remember it's not one-size-fits-all.  

It was a super discussion and I was happy to be part of it and it made me think.  It's energising and satisfying to be able to use this negative experience of my cancer to support others! 

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  • Well done good to share experiences to support others 

  • I was drawn to this blog because of the "Cancer at Work" title.  I changed employer in mid June and after my arrival I discovered you could get a "Cancer health check" under the Health benefits.  Too late, I thought!   

    Secondly, a younger Colleague (c30) in my wider team a year ago went to the optician and ended up in the local Eye Hospital with eye cancer.   Wow.   Someone put an e-card round to send best wishes.   The things people had written were shockers.  Trivial remarks that he was at home watching films etc totally inappropriate and disconnected from the fact the aim of the surgery was to prolong his life another 10-15 years.  He's 30.   I don't think we'd ever spoken before (team had rubbish engagement) but when he returned he sent me a message to say "thanks for your note on the card.  Yours stood out".      

  • Oh my, how can people be so insensitive, it really astounds me.  Hope you're doing ok and have the support you need. Best wishes 

  • well done on being engaged in this. I have not got back to work and won't. My colleagues have been lovely but my employer has not. I have had to chase them and engage my union to get them to consider a medical retirement. I have been so well supported by friends and family and have never felt alone or unsupported and realise that many people have not been as fortunate as me in the support that they have received. We do need to keep the conversations going.

  • Sorry to hear you’ve not had the support from your employer, that must be so difficult. Best wishes