REASSURANCE #2

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Thanks gang, for replying to my 'empty blog'.  Well, I thought I'd try again so here goes:  Three weeks before my appt with lymphodema nurse on 2nd Aug. I noticed a kind of lumpiness, swelling on my mastectomy scar.  I'd given up wearing my sexy arm stocking as it was causing a lot of shoulder pain and stabbing in my op. site so was looking for a bit of reassurance.  Turned up at the hospital, no-one there, sat like a wally for 30 mins, re-checked my appt card twenty times then asked a nearby nurse if she new anything about my appt.  "Its cancelled" she said.  Nice one, no-one bothered to ring or send me a new one but hey these things happen.  But I was hoping for a little reassurance re my lump, she said there wasn't anybody around.  This is a hospital, there must be someone so I went to the radiotherapy suite to see if there was a breast nurse around - nothing.  Went to Macmillan suite to see if there was someone who could just cop a feel for me - no one!  Off home then.  Received another appt. through post saying as I didn't turn up for my appt. they were willing to give me another one for 27th October!!!!!  Too long to wait so rang breast care nurse "go and see your gp".  Went to see gp Friday before Bank Holiday, she could feel the lump too and mentioned it may be nothing but she wasn't prepared to make that decision so faxed a letter to my constultant, Mr. Frecker that evening.  Thursday after Bank Holiday rang Mr. Frecker's secretary re the appt. "there's no letter here" she said.  Good job I've got nothing better to do, so chased up all angles and finally get to see Mr. Frecker on Mon. 13th Sept. at 4.30!  I didn't want to waste anyone's time as its probably nothing, so something that could've been sorted in 5 mins has now taken up so much nhs time.  Mr. Frecker, I am sure, will say "its okay, nothing to worry about".  Why does it take so long?  I still feel the lump, my arm is like dunlop and I feel like I'm holding a sausage under my arm at times with the swelling.  Hey ho.  In the meantime, that little bit of reassurance sure has caused a big stir and have resorted to eating the entire contents of house out of worry.  God bless you all, love Annie. XX 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hello annie ,

    how worrying for you, yes its prob nothing but that wont make you feel better does it , i will be thinking of you and will keep my fingers crossed , hugs jenni xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi annie...well what a bloomin mess. i would have lost any confidence in the hospital after all that.  i hope everything goes ok for you.

    hugs and kisses   sue xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Annie,

    What sort of Hospital would leave you worrying you

    sick. You went to all those different suites and nobody there. I doubt if it was me there would be a few Arses kicked until somebody had a look and at least gave you an examination. Good Luck.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks for responding guys, just sounding off - it really does seem better when put down in writing on here and someone acknowledges it.  Oh, and without sounding too rude, I never thought I would be actually asking people to cop a feel.  I used to be such a prude.  Even my husband wont touch me now, never mind eh.  Ann