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FormerMember

22 Feb 2012

daves now in the hospice so hard to admit i couldent cope he seemed to pick up and i started to kid my self that he wasent as ill as the docs where saying then he collapses today and brought it crashing home how ill he is trying to be strong for every 1 when i dont want to be strong i just want the cuddles and some 1 else to say take a satep back for a day andy let me bee the strong 1 that sounds so selfish i know

FormerMember over 13 years ago

Hi

I am sure you did the best you could and Dave will know that,don,t beat yourself up.you are not selfish , its hard for you too , you are stronger than you think

sending big hugs
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Hi Andy,

I am so sorry that Dave now needs more help than you can give him, but he is in the best place with people who will know how best to help him.

It is amazing how when faced with these situations we manage to find the strength needed. As Nic says, don't beat yourself up, you have done a grand job up to now and I hope you make many more happy memories with Dave.

Sending you some big hugs,

Colin
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

andy

be assured you have and still are doing the best by your brother,its so hard and i know your heart must be breaking but sometimes the things that are most painfull can sometimes be for the best.dave knows how hard its been for you and that you love him dearly.........and thats because you have shown him by doing everything in your power to look after him and make his life as painless and comfortable as you could.

andy you are a superhero you just cant see it babe,your doing a great job........and you well deserve that cuddlexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxcuddles

love lins
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