night times are worse...

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My dad has stomach and liver cancer....was given months in January 2010....I can do all the practical and emotional support in the world...but...after that is done....I can't rest or sleep...my mind just keeps going. How do others cope please? I work full time, have a family and am now a carer...I feel numb and cannot cry and yet I know that I will feel better if I do......nights are the worst....can't remember that last good nights sleep I had...I accept we are going to lose him, I just don't want him to suffer or to be afriad of how his death will happen. He is coming to live with us next week, wants to die with us around him....

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    So sorry your Dad is going thru this, and things always seem worse at night, thats when our minds work overtime. You sound like a very careing Lady i hope your dad has happy times with you and your family its not going to be easy for you but im sure you will make the time your dad has left full of good memories.

    With Love And Hugs Lucylee. xxxx,

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi - I am in a similar position. Work full time and look after my mum at night.  I recently had 3 blissful nights sleep when my friend came to look after my mum.  All I can say is that things DO look much better after you have had some sleep. Try and get a break, if you can. Best Wishes. Jackie

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    You are in for a hard time ahead,where you will need all your strength Understanding ,Loving and Caring. If you want to talk or for people to listen you are on the right site. Better more Loving and Caring people you will not find. When the time comes to let your emotions go, We will be here for you.So never think your alone there is always someone to talk to and help in anyway we can.

    My thoughts and strength and Love are with you and your Family through these trying times.

    Take care and be safe. Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I really appreciate all your comments, especially when everyone has their own story and difficulties - it really helps knowing you're there so thank you. GP signed me off this morning for a couple of weeks which is the right thing for me at moment as my job is too close to home...my dad in good spirits today which is great and his appetite has picked up a little.

    Take care and God bless you....much love and hop g|ynis.....p.s. knew I needed signing off work as had started calling my sons by our pets names!!