World Cancer Day 2017 explores how everyone – as a collective or as individuals – can do their part to reduce the global burden of cancer. One of our editors Imogen looks at small acts that can make a world of difference.
After a cancer diagnosis, whether it’s your own or someone close to you, you may experience just about every emotion a human can feel. Some people feel upset, shocked or anxious, while others feel angry, guilty or alone. There is no right or wrong way to react, and that’s okay.
When Paul was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2012, he turned to Macmillan for support. That’s when he met Mario, a volunteer in the local information centre. Mario had been diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma years earlier, and after his treatment he wanted to help people in a similar situation.
Just as Macmillan supported Mario, and Mario went on to support Paul, there are ways we can all support each other. Whether you’re a friend, relative, colleague or next-door neighbour, here are some ways you could help:
Keep in touch
Sometimes a simple text, call or visit is enough to brighten someone’s day.
Listen
One of the most important things is not what you say – it’s that you are there and that you listen. If you listen to someone’s concerns, don’t change the subject and allow them to express their feelings, you show that you care. Read our tips on listening to, and understanding someone who has cancer.
Cook them a meal (or ten!)
Give practical gifts
A box of chocolates or flowers are go-to gifts, but they aren’t always the best for someone having cancer treatment. A nice hand cream or warm socks to lessen any side effects may be better. Check out our blog about thoughtful gifts for someone going through cancer treatment.
Be flexible at work
If you’re an employer, it’s important to communicate openly about cancer. Employees may need time off for treatment, recovery or to care for someone.
Ask if you can help around the house
Whether someone has cancer or is caring for someone, chores are usually the last thing on their mind. Offer to help out with everyday activities, for example weeding the garden or taking out the rubbish.
Offer to go to hospital appointments
Check if they want someone else with them at appointments. You could give them a lift, keep a note of important things, or just be there for emotional support.
Tell them about us
Macmillan is here for you this World Cancer Day and every day. If you or someone you know is struggling, we can offer you information and support. Visit our website at any time or call our cancer support specialists on 0808 808 00 00, Monday to Friday, 9am to 8pm.
What are you doing to mark World Cancer Day?
We’d love to hear how you are giving or getting support. Share your ideas and experiences in the comments below!
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