busy week ahead D-DAY

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going to see the nurses on the cemo unit tommorow not really sure what will happen .mum's got her bone scan on tuesday and on thursday we see the doc for results of her bone scan and ct before her cemo she also got an e.c.g at 1pm everythings upin the air can't see how she will start treatment if they don't really know what their dealing with until thay have all her results .she already thinks the worsed and has said if it has spread that it 's no treatment  as she doesn't see the point and would rarther just get on with it.NOT SURE HOW I FEEL ABOUT THAT but will continue to suport her in any way she needs it's her chose and i'll repect what ever she says.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello Muffit - your Mum sounds really scared - and when you are scared its often they way that you dont feel able to fight this disease! Let me explain a few things - you will both feel a lot better when you know exactly what it is that you are dealing with ! The plan of action will give you the steps you need to take and I suggest you just take one stage at a time because the treatment often continues for a number of months. Your Mum is going to need you for encouragement and support of course and that may be tough on you at times so keep using us for support here!

    As for spread - well if it has spread to the lymph  nodes it does not mean it has spread to anywhere in the body. If the scans show that it has spread further then I want you to go take a look at my profile please (by clicking on my name) and have a look at what I have been doing since finding out my cancer had spread 2 years ago.

    I have sent you a friend request so you can message me anytime once you accept it. Good luck with everything and as I say - one stage at a time. Love Jools x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi jools thank so much for your advice will let you know how it goes on thursday and will take it from their one step at a time side by side xx