the journey

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my amazing dad has been battling cancer for nearly 2 years now(wish i had found this site then)i thought i would write a diary /blog of how his treatment is going. it all began back in april 2009 when a urine infection showed up a tumour on his right kidney.he was whisked in to hospital to have the kidney removed within a week and the op was a success.he felt great after the op and back to normal within days so it came as a great shock to us all at his 3 month check up that the cancer had returned.they found small nodules on his lungs and tumours in the bone(hip and bottom of back) by the start of october dad had been given the cancer drug sutent.the side effects he felt made him lose weight all his hair went snowy white,had no taste for food and nausea. the nausea was controlled with different drugs.one of the good things about this treatment was you got a 2 week break in each cycle so on his 2 weeks off his appetite returned and he started to feel better. the sutent meds kept him ticking away for 14 months.we got the news end of nov begining of dec 2010 that a tumour in the spine had grown from 7cm to 18cm so the sutent was not keeping the cancer at bay so he was removed from it. this came as a huge blow to mum,dad myself and brother as who knew what the next step would be. he suffered with pains in his legs and a scan showed a non malignant tumour compressing the spine making the legs painful so he had 2 lots of radiotherapy which def helped and shrunk the tumour.dad was told of a new drug that they wanted him to trial.sadly he was not suitable for the trial due to blood counts etc but was told there was a fairly new cancer drug called everolimus(afinitor) they wanted him to try. this however would need funding.the price was very high but like the sutent(which needed funding we were optomistic.the news back 2 weeks later was no PCT had turned us down but dads consultant had applied to another company and they said yes.dad has been on the new treatment 10 days now.the main side effect of this is such a sore swollen mouth with ulcers which stops his ability to eat and drink.he does seem quite out of it at the moment so we are contacting mcmillan nurses and his cancer nurse.

7th march 2011

dad has been admitted to hospital.for the last 4 days or so he has been quite out of it.he is very dissorientated ,grabbing for things that are not there,hallucinations,sleeping 22 hours a day.we have spoken to a nurse and she seems to think it could be to do with his type 2 diabetes as he had a urine reading of 27.8(very high) we were told to take dad to his cancer ward at the hospital where it seems it is not the diabetes but a build up of morphine pain relief(mum did stop giving him this 2 days ago as pain was ok and because he seemed so out of it)they have kept dad in for at least overnite and the morphine has been stopped. they have also stopped the cancer drug for now as his poor mouth is so sore so they want to try an get him back to better health before restarting the drug again. i will update when i have more news.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    MAY 15th 2011

    i woke about half 6 this morning. denise said dad slept through till 4.30 am which is great. he did have a sleeping tablet and 1/2 of lorazipan to calm him.only thing is the latter drug can make him feel quite drowsy the next day.he feels and looks very bright at the moment and i have said we will take him for a walk later on if he so wishes. we are just waiting for the nurse to come and wash him now.

    will update again later

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    MAY 15th 2011

    sean and i popped out late morning and got some bits for dad. he ate a good breakfast of bacon and eggs and loves the flavoured ice chips. he also tried some sorbet we bought and that went down well...dad has been very calm most of the day .he has not been sleeping much in the day and we took him for a couple of walks today which he has really enjoyed. my brother has been over most of the day and evening too so its been nice family time.

    dad ate quite well for dinner and has been settled in his chair most of the evening

    his marie curie nurse turned up at 10pm.her name is alison and she too is so lovely and very good with all of us. dad has just started to take his last lot of tablets for the evening and has started to get anxious as he knows its sleep time and this is the time of night he hates most. he keeps apologising for making a fuss which he so isnt. he is amazingly strong and we are all so very proud of the strong and dignified way he is coping.

    i spoke to dads best friend today and have kept him up to speed with the situation. he was quite upset as they hhave known each other for over 65 years. he did ring back and spoke to mum but both him and dad were too upset to speak to each other(im hoping he will come and visit him soon)

    dad seems calmer now after some oxygen so myself and sean will take ourselves off to bed now.

    heres hoping both mum and dad have a restful night

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    MAY 16th 2011

    woke up at 6.15 this morning.went downstairs and spoke to mum and dads carer alison who said he had a really good nights sleep. he only woke up 2 times just to use the toilet and then went back to sleep. mum also slept right through which is great as she feels so much more refreshed.

    dad was still asleep when i left at 7am so i will ring later to see how his day has been. my mums sister and husband are going to see him today and i think if its nice they will take him out for a walk again as he does like to go out when he can

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    MAY 16th 2011

    popped in to see dad this afternoon for a couple of hours.he seemed quite bright and was sat in the wheelchair in the garden soaking up some sun.he seemed very relaxed and was off out with mum to do some banking etc. he has eaten well so far today.i am staying at home tonight and will go over tomorrow to see them.i know mum is worried as she says he is just getting weaker by the day....what on earth can i say to her to make her feel better???nothing i guess just be there and stay strong for her.i hope he has a good night again tonight and am always on call if needed

    i will update tomorrow

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Your parents are very lucky to have you Wendie love to you all xx