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We have just found out that our mum has got cancer of the gullet. They are unable to give mum the course of radio therapy and chemo that they intended to because mums kidneys are not good enough to deal with it. She has been on blood pressure tablets that have effected her kidneys. They can only offer 10 days of mild radiotherapy. They have also taken mum off the blood pressure tablets to see if her kidneys improve at all. She has got what they call a junction cancer it is at the bottom of her gullet and just at the top of her stomach. It has not spread to anywhere else. They say the operation is out of the question , mum is 79 and in good condition but they say she is not suitable for such a long and hard to recover from operation. Is any one else in a similar situation, we have nmever had to deal with anything like this before.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Elaine

    Welcome but sorry that you have to be here.  I am sure you will find all the love and support you need here in MacLand.  It's a mixture of patients, family and carers - but we all have the same thing in common - that nasty Mr C is affecting our lives.  If you look under the groups tab you will find the correct groups to give you some support and advice on your Mum's problems but writing a blog along the way can also be therapeutic and you will find so many people who are ready and willing to support you.

    I hope that your Mum's condition improves.  Look after yourself too because she's going to need you to be strong for her.

    Much love,

    Nin xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Nin

     

    Thank you so much for your reply, I am so sorry about Gordy, I read a little about you. I don't know if being on here is going to help me.........I just feel so sad reading peoples stories and comments, I'm crying all the time, I wish this wasn't happening to us, and this is just the beginning, I know it's just going to get worse.

    Thank you so much for taking the time to reply , I will do as you suggest.

    Love

    Elaine x