mum had her op now and had complete lung removed, she was in hospital for 2 weeks and is now home. I am looking after her, but what about help i hear other people talking about, that i can't seem to qualify for. To be honest i am exhausted and don't know how long i can carry on, i am disabled myself, and it's hard going. Took mum for blood tests this morning and the poor soul has been in bed all day exhausted…