Acceptance?

Hun, there are no words I can say that will help, but I am so sad to hear of your diagnosis. Life can indeed be cruel. Live everyday to the full and just love your husband and your life together. There is a group for Incurable cancer on here. It may help you to talk to others in the same position as you. I send you lots of love and strength and hope you can see some brightness ahead xxx

Hi I too was given 18mths to live,it was humbling 6yrs later almost 7 I'm still here but I'm now suffering really bad with the after effects depression anxiety don't know which was worst the cancer or the life after....every now and then I need reassuring I'm ok my battle started when I was 39yrs old I had small children... Cervical cancer I had radiotherapy chemo all was well, few years later it came back in the form of kidney cancer so after a big op all clear I did get secondaries on my lungs that magically disappeared ...now I feel worthless depressed sad I don't want to go out I feel more isolated as the days pass....and more depressed I'm too scared to go to the doctors as the last time he said it was all in my head.. Made me feel crazy anyone else feel like this I can't cope anymore!

Thank you for your kind words Miss sparkle , I am trying to keep my head up and spending time with loved ones.

I'll have a look at the incurable cancer group and see if I can find anyone who has been where I am.

Reetz I am so sorry to hear how you are feeling, you should not have to go through this on your own.

Open up to your family, they are all probably so concerned for you but unable to give much comfort. You should get referred for some professional help from your Doctor, nobody needs to go through this alone.

Hope you begin to feel better soon <3