My Diary a visit to a Hospice

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I had an Invite to  a Medway Hospice to attend a Lung cancer and Mesothelioma Support and Information Group meet which I was very nervous about attending.

We walked the dog so that he was happy being left for a few hours and set off to Rochester.

We called in at the Savacentre and shopped (another top bought for Xmas) and an Icecream was consumed with a lot of pleasure.

Off we traveled through Gillingham, Chatham and then Rochester and  noticed how run down the area has  become since leaving the Medway towns 10 years ago.

The lovely Garden at the Hospice

The Hospital has been built where the old St Williams Way hospital stood and an estate of houses as well–Oh how life changes.

The Wisdom Hospice, in High Bank, Rochester, was opened in 1984 and was named after Molly Wisdom who had raised money for the building of a Hospice in Medway, even though she herself was dying of cancer.

Today, the Hospice provides palliative and end of life care for patients with life-limiting illness in Medway and Swale, whilst offering support, counselling and advice to family members.

The service is run by Medway Community Healthcare and is primarily funded by the NHS, together with an annual grant of £539,000 from the Friends of the Wisdom Hospice.

We were greeted by wonderful friendly ladies on reception and  andthen all gathered in a room and plied with loads of food.

Cakes and Sandwiches –oh dear I had to be piccy –fancy starting a diet on that day!! But then a chocolate rice crispie cake is vegetarian ha!ha!

Sarah Lavender, a Occupational Therapist took us through all the things we need to make life easier in the home and we learnt that Argos are now selling Disabled items, so bringing down the cost of things, which is a great help.

Then Aileen McCartney a Physiotherapist Showed us how to breath while walking up stairs or hills –One breath in and two out as usually people do it the other way, so that means we don’t get the stale air out of our lungs.

When it was all overI talked to a nice couple by the side of me.

He had gone through everything I had and we were at the same point but he was only 54 (the doctors had told him they are seeing younger and younger people now.)

His Mother had died with Mesothelioma in September (she had washed clothes as I had done) and his Father had died last year. A whole family knocked out and he and his dad had worked at Chatham Dockyard. How cruel is that.

That story must be repeated time and time again. So sad.

We said our good by’s but I dont think I will go again as it is to far, I must talk to Canterbury K&CC to start a group here as this meeting was attended by so many people therefore there is a calling for such a group.

A very Memorable day though

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I glad you enjoyed the day Mavis and got something from it.

    It is sad that familys are wiped out by this horrendous disease.

    I thought my husband was young at 61 to be diagnosed with it but 54 and I read somewhere in the Forums of a man 46.

    God it is soooo scary.

    My own brother was a welder in our shipyard. He is 47 at the moment Please Lord that he never gets it but who knows?

    My current partner was a fireman all his life and he was telling me that the masks they wore in them days were made out of asbestos.

    Again Please Lord that he remains free from it.

    I hope and pray that you stay well for a very long time Mavis.

    All my Love Julie XX

  • Thanks Julie for your hopes.

    I have read that a girl of 12 has been diagnosed with it and that is so horrendous.

    On face book we have a lot of women that are so young.

    One sweet lady was in her forties and she had a baby she has been having Chemo and look after her baby.

    This is a cruel disease. xx

    Love mavis

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks Mavis for your sharing your interesting day at the hospice.  We still haven't solved the problem of Mal's lack of appetite, he has no interest in food at all, and it's hard to keep forcing food down for the calories, he's on steroids and that helps a bit but he doesn't want to be on them long term, also has anyone managed to do something about the cough and it's very irritating, he's due for a scan early December at St. Barts, so we are all hoping it's o.k. thanks for the advice on breathing. Love Angela