well,two months since my brother has passed away and still having a difficult time without him. i just can't believe he's not here.i want to pick up the phone and call him, i want to see him just one more time. i lost my dad in march and my brother in august and i know the holidays without these two very special people will be very difficult. thank goodness for the support of my husband and children.
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Gosh that's hard. Boy I know what you mean though. I would pick up the phone often after I lost my mom to call her like I used to or when something cool happened and I wanted to tell her. It was surreal. You've probably heard the first year is tough, all the holidays and occasions you used to share you have to get through. All I know is the intensity of the loss on a daily basis does get easier and less constant. Eventually you can share stories and memories and have good laughs, but right now its too soon and very raw. Somehow, and you won't really know how, you will survive and keep their memory alive and all the good things. Best, Lori
i dont know what to say my love all i can say is 3 years ago i lost my mum , dad and my bro inlaw in 7 weeks . some say how did i cope i say i dont know it was i haze and some times still is as only 8 month befoe this i lost my 21 year old nephew so one sis lost her son my and dad in in 8 month and one lost her mum dad and hubby how we doing now will i miss them so so much as i sick and need my mum most then ever for a hug for my dad to say you be ok fluffy . this year will be the 1st xmas i told every one i not going to have with any one but simon as we had hard year and we just wont to be together but he know at 3 oclock we think of my mum my dad my bro my nephew and we think of sim onmum how he lost as 6 life must go on but you past is a big part of you to if i can help i here to chat but thay not wont you to be sad at xmas so set a time aside say 3 oclock to think of them the have a great time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx jilly ann xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i feel your pain everyday since jan.24th 2008 my brother pass that day after a 21/2 year fight with stomach cancer,it will be 10months the 24th and i feel like it was just yesterday,i really don't want to see the holidays come,the few that pass was hard enough but thanksgiving and christmas i just want to sleep away. i'm sorry for your lost but i know where your at
