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FormerMember

5 Jan 2011

Hi there everyone,

My dad was diagnosed with cancer of the gullet in november , he is just eating soups and drinking protein shakes ! dad is also a diabetic aswell so hoping it doesnt interfere with this . Ive never expereinces any feelings like this before and am very scared for my dad and for my mum who is now his carer ! dads cancer is inoperable and he is due to start chemotherapy next week , i think he is starting to give up on things now though as he is in constant pain and has just no life about him anymore , i dont know what to say or do to help him through it ! and i really wnt a realistic view of whats ahead seeing as dads cancer is inoperable and he isnt going to get better :-( x

FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Misspink,

Sorry to hear about you Dad. You and your Mum are there for him and that will mean alot to him even though he dosent show it . Be there for him when he needs you, sit and have a chat about when you where young the good old days. Days of happy memories.

As for whats ahead of you, its going to be a long hard road for both you and your Mum. I will send

you all my strength support and caring. Once he starts his treatment you should see a difference for the good. All the best and Good Luck.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi misspink

my hubby had that and it was terminal. if your dad is in pain and not eating they might put a stent in to help. My thoughts will be with you . If i can help in anyway just send me pm

love june_m
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