Just to let you know if anyone is curious, but plucked up the courage to ask about my kidney cancer, I had a frank talk with the oncologist, I'm for paliative care only. My tumour was 8.3 cm and had already spread through the vein and to the lymphs. Been taken off the chemo, as the side effects where killing me before the cancer, but hope to go back onto more after the result of my scan which is coming up soon. But on the good side, so far i'm feeling ok, and would not think that i was a grade 4 cancer, considering I'm running around after a 2 year old walk the dogs 3 x daily love my food! and generally have a good life style and think positively, I just hope this gives people hope, and to never give up. Live life to the full and embrace every moment!!!
