jean

  • Cant cope

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I have come to the conclusion now that i cant cope being a full time carer. There for i have decided to put mum in to full time residental care. to much has gone on in my family it has torn us apart i now feel i have to take charge and get my family back in to some form of normality dunno how thats gonna work i have 2 girls aged 10 & 6 that is depressed with all thats going on and my son has left to stay with his dad…

  • mum

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    i got mum into respite and i also got her another week stay but i am getting help to try and get her in to permenent care me and hubby spoke to the staff at the home this morning and they also agree with us that 24 hour care is what mum need but no i wish i had done it sooner. last night i called my brother to let him know what i was planning to do with mum and now the whole family is against me but i dont care im trying…

  • mum having a better day

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Mum having a better day today she has eaten her first proper meal in 2 weeks lets hope she continues to eat she not had diahrrea today so fingers crossed it continues but i dont think it will. I think  it'll be back in a few days but who knows

     

    Jean

     

  • stage 4 cancer

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    this is gonna sound stupid but what signs do i look out for when my mum's health starts to deteriroate anyone got any ideas please help she was given 3-6mnths 12 max now she is approaching the 12 month mark i thing her health is starting to go down hill but im not sure