Clairelouisjane

hi guys i will do so from now on just when i went on that day all i said was i was a bit down and this person said how boring was this chat tonight etc etc so i just went off didnt want to spoil it for everyone me being down so thought better of it all i wanted was someone to brighten up my night not to go on about how morose i was feeling hey ho now you wont get rid of me lol!!!! jen xxxx

Hi Jen,

Sorry you were not happy with chat, but, please do try again.  at least 90% of the folk that go into chat are for the right reasons, sadly we do get 10% who are there to be bloody minded and uopste the whole thing. Chat has been a real booster to myself, not only in the fact have made friends who understand, but can put back what have received, and will continue to do so.  So do notlet the odd few put you off.

Will be in tonight between 9-10 ish and staying for sometime so will give you a really warm welcome along with all other members, please do try it. Jan x

Hi Jen

Well that wasn't very nice, just ignore comments like that. As Jan says most of us are there for each other but for a small percentage it's all about them. I have finished chemo and rt now but still go in to try and help others and see the wonderful friends I have made. Whilst having chemo there were many days when I wanted to crawl into bed but I went in to chat instead and usually left feeling much better thanks to the many fantastic people that use that room, Jan being one of them! We do get a bit daft sometimes but if you're low and want to chat more seriously we do stop, alternatively grab one of us for a one to one chat.

Hope to see you soon

Max xxx

Hi Jen

Just want to echo what the others are all saying, please do not be put off by the unthinking comment of an individual. The chat room is meant to be somewhere to relax, have a few smiles - but most of all to meet people who have been or in the same position as ourselves and ready to listen and even advise without judgement.

Would be fantastic if we all felt great all the time - but some times we are down, sometimes we are hurting. At times we may just want to go in, sit quietly and listen while we share the company of friends.

Promise, as Jan says, so many are there for all the right reasons please give it another go.

Hugs

J xx

have just had my 2nd chemo wednesday so im still suffering a bit think its the steroids more than anything and im not been able to sleep since wed night just catching an hour every so often so i will be grateful to chat to you all tonight if you dont mind im up for a laugh like everyone else so dont want to be morose all the time and everyone is so wonderful on the blogs and my private messages see you all later thanks so much for your kindness guys

love and hugs jen xxxx