Diagnosis

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The local charity were running a PSA testing event for people in the village, it was raining that day so we hadn't gone out. I went for the test, initially I did park in the wrong place but eventually found the centre. It was a shock to receive a letter a few weeks later saying I should go to my GP. So I ignored the letter for a few weeks, and then made the appointment. My GP turned out to be a young lady who looked about 15. She said we normally don't give this test without counseling, but in your case I'll use my finger to feel your prostate. She said she couldn't feel anything but as we have this letter she should send me to the hospital and a man with a more expert finger would look at me there.
So two weeks later at the hospital the man with the expert finger said "you need more tests", the MRI was painless. The biopsy was most uncomfortable, and has I think caused the most side-effects. The nurse specialist confirmed the diagnosis that I had prostate cancer and it had escaped and was affecting a wider area. This was just before Christmas and such a huge shock, because I didn't feel ill at all.

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  • Evening Derek,

    Sorry to see you joining us here. In case you hadn't yet realised there is a Prostate Group within the community - If you wish to check out the posts and replies with a view to joining the group just click this link.

    Hope this is of some help to get you settled in. Take care, G n' J

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks for the advice G n' J and I've joined the group. I will still try and blog on a regular basis about my experiences

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Derek, Terry here with a very similar story to yours. Just before Christmas last I was sent for an MRI scan by my doctor as earlier in the year I had experienced quite a lot of painful episodes in my back and shoulders. On my return to work this January I was called in to the doctor to be told that I had shadows on my spine and that this apparently was very serious. I was dumbstruck as at Christmas I had been doing the usual festive stuff together with lots of walking.

    Twelve weeks on and I am on hormone injections, have had several radiotherapy sessions on my spine and am now hoping to have radiotherapy on my prostate, the primary cause of my cancer.

    It has not been the beginning to a year that I expected but I take heart from the people out there supporting me and also on this site who provide information, real-life experiences and glimpses of hope when at times there is despair.

    Best wishes.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Terry

    So sorry to hear about your condition. I can sympathise, having to try and live a normal Christmas with something like this in the back of your mind. For me it's there all the time. I do like walking as well, and luckily enough before any significant treatment started , we had a holiday in Tenerife and did lots of walking there. The nurse specialist said "holiday - good idea, sunshine and vitamin D" so we booked and went.

    The hormone injections into the tummy are a pain, but bearable. I hope your radiotherapy is going well. There are plenty of men like us out there. It seems for us that 2015 will be a life changing different year.

    Best wishes

    Derek