since being diagnosed with cancer , and 2 further recurrences ( one of them current) i have experienced extreme anger , which is so not like me pre diagnosis. is this normal ? is it my fault? i hate myself. please helpme somebody, i'm distraught
FormerMember
Hello. of course it's not your fault none of it is cancer does not discriminate.
I've just been diagnosed with secondary breast cancer on my spine and waiting for results of ct to see if it's anywhere else and you know what I am furious and completely terrified.
Which first time round I wasn't it was a case of ok then what do we do about it.
So you're not alone especially on here we all support each other.
So if you want to rant rave whatever we don't care go for it big time. we all understand.
Just like Vee says, it is not your fault, none of us ask for it but we get it and we have to deal with it chic, we don't really have much choice. I am lucky in a way, I knew without a doubt mine would return and I am finding it easier to deal with now because I know what is coming. We are allowed to get angry and scared and you know that you can say "No, I am not bloody ok" you have mates on here saying the same thing, so you go for it any time you want to love......Sending a 'cyber' hug....love Carol x
