why did this have to happen

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hi my name is sandra,

my husband was told yesterday that he has stage 4 lung cancer, and today we were told it is in his rib bones as well, he is being given chemo in the christie hospital and if hes well enough he will be on trial drugs, we only got married in november and he has a 10yr old son from a previous partner at the moment it feels like our whole world has been turned upside down, so at the moment all we seem to do is cry, we know theres no cure but if it reduces the pain and lets him breath easier , so what started as a chest infection turned into a nightmare, thats our story so far, sorry if im going on but i never thought this would happen....x

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    sandra huni , my heart is breaking for you , life is crap as i know ive just lost my husband aged 40, im 34,

    the emotions you are going to feel will vary so much , but we are all in this together , and if you need anything just please come to one of us because we will understand everything you are going thru , i also have 3 young children , and the most positive thing i can tell you is they are coping amazingly with everything thats happened , your step son will give you both such strength , please treasure every single minute no matter how hard love jenni xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    So sorry to hear this.  My Beloved was only recently diagnosed for inoperable Cancer so I do know how you're feeling.  It's not easy but in the last few days I've found some marvellous people on this site.

    They are all going through similar circumstances and ready to lend an ear or offer advice.

    I think I'll be around here a lot.  

    Love and hugs to you and your family Sandra.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hello sandra - so sorry to hear ur devasting news -

    sending you both love (((HUGS))) and strength

    xNx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Sorry to hear your devastating news Sandra.  Like many on this site I will be around  a lot too. My husband Keith was diagnosed with lung cancer 2 weeks ago our world too has come crashing down.  I wish it would all go away.  I can't stop crying but trying to be strong for him.  Don't know when I will ever feel normal again.  Life is so sad and unfair.  Lots of hugs to you.  jan

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I have been where you are and I have had cancer myself. So I know exactly how you are feeling. This site is magnificent and the community wonderful. We are all here to give you strength and lots of love. Make every minute count with your hubby he is still here with you and when he becomes pain free you will make many more memories to treasure. Lots of Love Julie xx