when will the pain of loss stop, all im doing is crying and feeling very lost, have tried to keep myself busy but it only lasts for a while, just having a very bad time, why did he have to leave me! feeling so down .....x
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Its not going to be easy. The pain will be there for a long time to come,but the day will come andthe pain will start to ease. Try and be strong, remember your not lost as long as you stay on this site there are people here who will help you in any way we can,
If you are feeling down or you want to talk to someone about anything,at all there will always be somebody here for you.
So take care and be safe. My thoughts are with you at this time.Love Sarsfield.xxx
So very sorry to hear of your loss I can understand your utter devastation. Your feelings are a natural reaction and a testament to the love you both shared. It will get better time is a wonderful healer but for now you just have to go with the flow. Each day will be different with different hurdles to climb but the intensity will lessen and you will begin to feel sane again. There is no right or wrong way to get through this just go with whatever works for you....any time you need a shoulder log in we are all here to share your journey
oh huni , i wish i could help you, only time can do that, it does get a little easier, take it hour by hour to start with, then day by day ,and remeber what your feeling is because you loved him so very much,
Dear Sandra..i can feel your pain in your words...its natural to feel devastated and lost...and even angry...you love him and miss him so much it hurts. no words will comfort you at this time but try to remember Tim is at peace and no longer suffering...and hes still with you in your heart...and always will be..take care..and i pray for strength for you and your family...love and hugs...Sharon xxxxx
I know how you feel. I liken every day to having open heart surgery with no anaethsetic. Dont expect anything any day. Just go with whatever gets you through and as Jenni says take an hour at a time. If you get through that hour concentrate on getting through the next one. Just keep breathing through the pain. x x
