Finding it more and more difficult to cope without her xxx

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I dont know if this is appropriate, i apologise if its not.

 

Lost my mum on the 18th of November 09.  where has the time gone.  My inspiration, my best friend, the most intelligent person i knew.  She was wonderful, i cant even put it into words. At least she is at peace.

i just miss her, it hurts.  Im hoping to have ababy soon and theyll never meet. 

Feeling abit low.  xxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Blue,

    Yes you never forget the day when your Mum Died.

    It hurts like mad,and you cant get it out of your mind.

    I Hope the pain starts to ease sometime, and your pregnancy goes well for you. Good Luck.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Blue,

    It is so difficult to see a future without our parents in it. I lost my dad 9 weeks ago and yesterday my youngest daughter started reception and it was so sad as we always go to mum and dads on the kids first day back at school for a special tea, but i couldn't even go and see mum. It is horrible thinking of what is to come without our loved one being there.

    My dad lives on in me and my children and your mum will live on in your beautiful baby and her mum.

    Its hard hun there are no right words but i'm here if you want to talk. xxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dear Bluebird

    I agree with what the others have said - but have you thought about talking to a bereavement counsellor? If you call your local CRUSE they might be able to help, and it doesn't cost anything. I know it really helped me recently. Take care and keep blogging if it helps to talk. Val X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Blue, I know how you feel. I lost my dad 5 months ago yesterday and it still feels so incredibly unreal.

    I miss home more and more as time goes on. My mum got taken into hospital today with a broken hip and I so wished dad was there with us to help as he always did.

    Wishing you all the very best. I, too am here, if you feel the need to chat.

    Christine xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi

    Mums are the people you never really think will not be there until a big sod off bolder drops on your  head and you realise that this is not so. i lost mum in july and as time is passing i am feeling it harder to cope with. i look at my two small children and cherish even more every kiss i give them. hopefully your new arrival with give you comfort and strength and a new belief for life.

    sending all my love and hugs

    vanessa xx