Problems At Home

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My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer and she had the operation for a lumpectomy on the 27th of June. She was discharged from the hospital on Saturday 29th June and since Monday 30th June she has had severe pain in her right leg by her thigh. So painful she screams out with it at night.

The first doctor who came to the house gave her Co-Codamol tablets these made her constipated and did not get rid of the pain. The second Doctor came to the house a few days later and prescribed Tramadol and a laxative . The Tramadol made her dizzy and sick. Today I had to phone for a doctor to see her again as she was in severe pain and he prescribed Dihydrocodeine  and Paracetamol and told me that she may have to have a bone scan to see that the cancer has not spread.

 

Seems strange that before the operation she was fine and was walking normal with a stick and having had the operation is not mobile at all except when she goes to the toilet. She spends most of the day in bed and might hot in this weather . She has not lost any weight . Drinks plenty of water and eats small meals.

 

She was suppose to attend breast clinic last week and has a appointment this forthcoming Tuesday if she is well enough to attend.

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Wuster,

    I'm sorry to hear you're having a tough time at home, it sounds like it's been difficult so far to find an effective way for your mother to manager her pain. 

    If you'd like to talk to someone about your mum's situation, please do give us a call on the Supportline. The number's 0808 808 0000 and is open Mon-Fri 9am-8pm. You'll be able to talk to a cancer nurse specialist who'll hopefully have some ideas as to what you can do to help your mum be more comfortable. The team will also be able to talk to you about other support you might need. 

    I've noticed from your profile that you've not joined any groups yet. Joining a group is a great way to meet other people who are going through a similar situation. 

    A group you might want to take a look at is the carers only group or maybe the breast cancer group.  Some people find that sharing what they're going through with others can really help.

    Take care, 

    Laura