OMG! Here we go! (No.3)

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Hi Guys

I am now home after having my double mastectomy last Wednesday.  I can honestly say (especially for those out there facing the same thing) it was not as bad as I imagined.  Op on Wednesday home by Friday evening after drains were taken out (not painful at all, but just a weird sensation) and am finding that I do get tired after a few hours, so a good excuse for a lie-down!  My chest is not painful at all, just a little sore, although I can only sleep on my back!  Seem to have a little fluid on my right side, which should absorb back into the body (completely expected) but if it doesn't and gets to be quiet alot (resembling a deflated water balloon!) but it will need to be siringed off.  Dressings are removed this Wednesday by practice nurse, and then its waiting for Wednesday after (23rd) when I find out about the next stage of treatment. 

Next stage ranges (obviously depending on what comes back from pathology tests) at least hormone therapy (Tamoxifen) for 5 years, at most more surgery (more lymph nodes to go - already removed 4/5), chemo and/or radiotherapy. 

Too sore to wear any prosthesis as yet (care nurse said it will be 3/4 weeks until I can stand a bra hooked around me) to that is a little strange having the chest to match my 11 year old Son!  However, trying to disguise it with baggy cardigans draped around my shoulders (only time I wished it wasn't so warm!) or fancy scraves. 

Anyway, feeling really positive, and even though it was a shock to see my chest for the first time, I know that at least the cancer was somewhere which could eaily be removed. 

As always, I feel very blessed xxxxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Helliwellie

    Loving your positive attitude. I had right mastectomy in March and found, like you, it wasn't as bad as I feared. I recovered well and quickly. i'm currently having chemo due to lymph node activity but faring well. I also am glad to be here and able to plan for a future after treatment.

    Keep up the positive vibe it will help you greatly and as you say you are blessed, as am I.

    Best Wishes with any future treatments

    Maxine

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Helen,

    Now thats what I call a very brave woman,with your attitude and strength. The treatment though its along hard road.your strenght and positiveness will see you to the end of that road.Good Luck.

    Take Care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi hellie , so glad your doing so well .what a fab attitude ,you will go far in beating this, look forward to talking to you again soon when you feel up to it . love and hugs jenni xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello Hellie and welcome to the 'club'.  I had a left mastectomy/axillary clearance in 2007 followed by radio/yr herceptin - too ill for chemi.  But I';m still here!!!!  I found wearing jazzy blouses in the early days disguised my lack of boob on one side - I must say I was glad it rained a lot during  2007 as a mac hides a multitude.  Anyway, rest when you need to, make sure you do those exercises you've been given - they really will help you in the long term and good luck - look forward to reading your deliberations - good or bad and holding your hand until you get to the other end of treatment.  God bless, take care Ann xxx