OMG! Here we go! (No.2)

Hi Ya Hellie,

You have the right attitude and understanding to give this Cancer a good kick up the Bum.

Your Husband is a very lucky man who has a wife who dosent just think of herself,but is Loving and Caring. All the very Best of Luck on Wed.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx.

P.S. You can beat this.

Hi Hellie,

As a hubbie it is so difficult to take time out for myself when my partner is going through so much and after 3 months of us coping with this together it is still difficult. But so many people have said that I MUST take time out to look after myself so that I can be strong for her and so I am forcing myself to do one or two things for me alone. It is difficult though because I feel so selfish but this is a long-haul for everyone involved and so I am determined to stay strong for Sal... and to do that I must stay strong "in" myself. So I am making a point to do some things on my own, for me. It is making us stronger together and I would strongly recommend Gary to go golfing if you are both happy with it. He can come back refreshed and ready for you to tackle the following week together. Nevertheless, I fully understand that he might be reluctant to spend time away at this time.

We both wish you the very best for Wednesday. If there is anything we can do to help in any way... anything... please, just ask.

It is such a difficult balancing act when you are first diagnosed. You want to keep some degree of normality in your lives at a time when your whole world has been turned upside down. I tried to make my husband carry on as normal but it was hard work. We got through the 'crisis' time and then I gradually pushed my husband back to living a normal life.

I wish you luck with your treatment.

KateG

Hi

He probably feels guilty that he can't 'fix' this and that he shouldn't leave you at a time like this but the break will probably do him good and as you say he will be busy after your op! Take it from my hubby, who is a gem, he'll be run off his feet for a few days!

Good wishes and positive thoughts for your op and recovery.

Maxine

Hiya,

I am the owner Of Ralph the cavvy and just wanted to say hi and thnkyou for ur kind message. not quite sure how to private message you, so am trying to contact you this way. lol

Jackie