First me, then my cat, now my Nan. What next cancer?!?!?!

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Earlier on today, my Nan was diagnosed with womb cancer.

I knew that it was a possibility but after me having cancer, I didn't really think that it would happen to anyone else in my family. I don't think that it's hit me yet really, it's weird. It brings back a lot of memories of the time I was diagnosed, Nan came over and handed me the ring binder (which is the exact same colour, size. etc as I got given) and I opened it to see the name of her oncologist. Dr T- my oncologist! Weird. But anyway, I absolutely loved my oncologist and I know that my Nan will be in good hands.
My Nan told her Doctor about me having cancer and apparently everyone in the room knew who I was, apparently I was the talk of the hospital for a while. Guess that's what you get for being an 18 year old with larynx cancer! lol

The first step for my Nan is a hysterectomy. Hopefully, the cancer hasn't spread anywhere but we will find out soon. She'll be having an MRI scan asap and I guess they'll do the staging/grading after they remove everything and can do more biopsies. My Nan is 72 and has COPD and I just hope to God that she an have a hysterectomy and that's it. No chemo, no radio.

I don't know, it's just weird. I've been in my Nan's position and it's weird looking in from the outside. I guess it's good that I know the medical terms, I know about the stages/grades but then at the same time maybe it's not so good because I do really know about everything.

I got through it, my Nan is an amazingly strong woman so she can too. I really hope she can, my Nan is my hero, my best friend and the worlds best Grandmother. I love her to absolute pieces and can't imagine what it would be like without her.

Anyway, there's my update. I hate cancer :( (Who doesn't?)

Hayley x

P.S Found out the other week that my cat has cancer too, he had it removed and now it's growing back again. They said he can't be cured.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh Hayley, I'm so sorry that you find yourself facing cancer again this time through your beloved grandmother.  I can only imagine how bizarre this must be for you.  When I found out about my son's illness, how I wished I could take it away from him and go through it for him.

    I am with you in wishing a hysterectomy would be all your Nan would need and that she wouldn't have to undergo the rigors of chemotherapy and radiation.  I am sure that with your knowledge and experience of having gone through this disease, you will be a great source of support for your Nan.

    Even your cat has been stricken by this terrible disease!  I wish cancer never existed.

    Love and Hugs,

    Rachel

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hayley, so sorry to hear about the recent turn of events in your family.  It is wierd when you end up going through similar situations more than once.   I will pray that you nan can be treated and the cancer removed by hysterectomy with no further intervention needed. sorry about the cat too.

    I remember you because you were the one who told me about the 'chemo angel' site.  

    Take my sweet.  Thinking about you and your family especially your Nan.

    Love and angel hugs x x Patricia (Dev) x x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Well...it's all been thrown at you, hasn't it?  When I've read your posts I've been astonished to learn how young you are - you write beautifully and think way beyond your years.  So cancer for you has been a peculiar gift, but a gift really, if you can see it that way...

    I have a special cyber affection for you, having learned from you about practical things like where to buy headgear and humbling things like how to take on the world.

    How can you not be depressed about the awful news about your poor Nan and your cat?  But your spirit is still shining through and you are the perfect person to help your Nan through this.  Wish you all the very best

    Cat xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Sweetheart - I was so sorry to hear your news.  You know we're all thinking of you and sending love and strength to you and your Nan.  I can imagine how much more difficult it must be for you when you know from first hand experience what she's going through - but that also means that you can help her so much more.

    Much love and hugs as always

    Kate xxxx