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Hi everybody, please say hello to me cos I am soooo bored. In April I had a Colon cancer operation followed by a twisted bowel operation followed by an abcess operation followed by blood poisoning. I hope I have made you feel better. Despite all of that horror, I remain very positive and I really value life and I will never take anything or anyone for granted. I will hopefully have a reversal operation from my Ileostomy and I need some information about what I am in for. You must understand my terror of hospital following the first set of sagas. I lost 3 stone and was fed via my neck, what a carry on. I am sure that this does not normally happen (does it ?) If you would like a general chat, come on down. My hobbies are Guitar, Guide Dog puppy training, allotment gardening, golf, supporting Sunderland, drinking and travelling. Sometimes I find time for work. Hope to speak soon, go on, reply.. Cheers, Ian.
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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi if i see you in i love to talk  good luck with it all jilly ann  but thay all call me pink and fluffy in the room as i all ways happy  . i haqve N H L   and doing well

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ian,

    Just to say hello to a fellow colon/bowel cancer patient.

    I had a biopsy and they said my tumour was not cancer so they removed it and then said actually it is cancer and really aggressive, you are stage 3 with lymph node involvement!!!I

    Just had 5 weeks radio and chemo {which should have been done before tumour removal) Waiting results of chemo/radio.

    Need a stoma soon, mine is low down in bowel so it will be permanent. Have not got my head round to this yet though, but will nearer the time.Always remain positive and do not worry until I have to.

    Take care

    Jo x

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    FormerMember

    How nice to be bored.  Can't you plan a trip away?  I think the most difficult thing to train a dog to do is to stop several yards away and wait for you.  I am still trying to remind my border collie that this is what she must do, but she keeps trying to come back.  OK in the park, but on the other side of the road, a bit nerve racking!  Of course, guide dogs don't cross the road on their own, but for a pet, it is a useful skill.  I expect I'm not consistent enough.  She's 3 now, but I think they are never too old if you keep them learning new things.  

    As a supporter (by marriage) of WBA, I can't talk about Sunderland's fortunes, but if they aren't in the Premier Division, I wish them all the best.  You can't say fairer than that.  

    I don't know about an ileostomy reversal.  I had my tumour down by the appendix and had it removed with the connection moved up.  Very lucky not to get any infection, worth talking about.  It is just an operation though  Build yourself up, take lots of exercise, and be content.  It ought to be fairly straightforward, then you will have the new you restored to you.   Then more of the same, skiving, golf, until you have built up your strength again.  

    Let us know when it is and we will be here when you get back.

    Rwth

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    FormerMember

    Hi Ian and yes, you've certainly fought the fight. It must have been so very hard for you at times, but I'm sure your bright outlook went some way to help you wade through all the bloody horror that this coward of a disease leaves as it's calling card. I'm sorry I can't offer you any insight into what you will face with regards to your reversal operation, but I just wanted to say hello and to tell you that the 3 stones YOU lost must've winged it's way to ME as I am now 3 stones heavier than when I began this awful nightmare of a journey. LOL

    My wingless angel Mick bought me a banjo earlier in the year, as I've always loved it as an instrument and longed to learn how to play it. Since being diagnosed in April of this year, I have not picked up the instrument as I found it a wee bit hard to give it my full attention. However, Mick picked it up for me and to date he has learnt how to play Molly Malone and Wild Rover (both Irish tunes, like himself). I love to hear him picking away at it, and I know I'll wake up one day and decide to pluck out a tune or two - I'll let you know when it happens, ok? Training puppies who will become guide dogs must be very rewarding and you must get great safisfaction from the part you play in their training. I LOVE gardening - we have a communal garden which we all share, but I have spent so many happy times there; gardening, sitting reading, listening to music and having the most fantastic "drunken" garden parties in the summer months - oh yes, we're a terrible lot here. Food and booze in abundance, we couldn't have been happier, LOL  We don't play golf, but Mick's brother Thomas who lives in Edinburgh plays every chance he gets, much to the annoyance of his long suffering partner Avril, LOL  I support Liverpool and am hopelessly in love with Steven Gerrard (don't tell Mick lol), and Celtic. I really took an interest in Sunderland when Roy Keane took over as manager,  Roy is from Cork City, whereas Mick is from county Cork, but the local team in Mick's home town are called Cobh Ramblers, the team Roy Keane started his football career - there ya go!! LOL I'm filled to the brim with useless information, but it keeps me happy -see, simple minds and all that, lol I'm pleased to note that you enjoy a tipple, I did too prior to cancer, but hope to pick up the brandy glass on the odd occasion; Mondays Tuesdays, etc etc lol.

    Don't work too hard - hard work has been known to have an averse effect on one's health, lol  Keep fighting the good fight, and hold on tight (to anything) with love                kate xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx