Blood Donors

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This may turn into a lengthy (and somewhat heartfelt) ramble..

Throughout my life I've always intended to give blood. It's something that's always appealed - and it's so easy to do. Just sit there and let the blood donation team take what they need. [And have a brew afterwards!]

Yet somehow I never got round to actually giving.

There's always been a reason (i.e. excuse) why I didn't. I was too busy. I couldn't get there. I had no-one to go with. I forgot. I'll go next time.........

But on Easter Monday that all changed.

On Easter Monday I spent 12 hours in hospital, 9 of which were spent receiving 3 units of blood (about a pint and a half in "old money") via transfusion in readiness for me to begin the radio and chemo treatments.

Lying there, watching the blood enter my system, I felt very grateful, very humble and a little guilty.

Three people - three anonymous, wonderful people - had taken time out of their busy lives to donate blood. They'd not made excuses, cried off or taken the easy way out. No. They'd given generously, not knowing who would receive it, but gave nonetheless.

Those three people could have contributed towards saving my life.

They are unsung heroes. I hope they understand the good they're doing.

Jacqui x

Saturday 5/10 - tired, tired, tired :-(
Sunday - 9/10 - lovely day with A in the sunshine :-)
Monday - 8/10 - long day at hospital but very worthwhile
Tuesday - 7/10 - achy, groggy and sleepy :-(
Wednesday 8/10 - on the way back up!!

Anonymous
  • We all contribute to the welfare of others in small ways - even by smiling at a strange. It is a shame you didn't get around to donating but I'm sure you will help others in the future even if it isn't by donating blood.

    Best wishes,

    KateG

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Well said Kate!

    Jacqui as someone who enjoyed being a blood donor - sadly they no longer want it :'( I can assure you, that you have nothing to feel guilty about.

    We give blood, because we can or for many reasons.  My family gave blood because of my sister, born with cerebral palsy she had MANY operations and needed a fair bit of blood throughout, she is now 41, drives, has her own home and quite the high flyer at work!  Giving blood was OUR way of giving something back, for being grateful for what our family had received.

    My husband came twice, fainted on both occassions and took much ribbing - mostly from me haha and decided that he didn't want to do it...which I understood.

    YOU are the very reason people give blood, to help whoever, whenever, whatever!  I hope it did the trick and you are ready to tackle your treatment head on.

    Good luck,

    Debs xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi  I have to say I felt exactly the same, always meant to give as people in my family had used their fair share.  Went to give two years ago and was told if I was going to try for a family soon not to bother and then was diagnosed and now cannot give. But Kate and Debs are right we do give back in our own ways and this is important to remember x But yeah to the unsung hero's!

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I feel the exact same. The three times that I've needed a blood transfusion since starting my chemo, I've felt so humbled and grateful. In all I've need 6 units, 6 different strangers have helped me on my way to getting better. I so grateful to them, and anyone who has given blood here, I'd like to say thank you.

    erin x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I made a promise to myself when I reached The magical 5 yrs clear I was going to ask can I donate if not now when.

    Sadly only made 3 yrs so that's me out but am encouraging all family and friends if they feel it's the right thing to do.

    Heres to all the Heroes.

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