feeling lonely and sad

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i hope im doing this right as im still confused by this new site!!!!

i lost my dad nearly 3 months ago to prostate cancer,i know its still early days but im finding it very hard to deal with,i cry every day and i just feel so lonely without him here.ive got a great husband and friends but obviously life moves on around you and i feel my lifes just stopped. my dad was my security,that person who loved me unconditionaly,he was my best mate.i havent got a mum or family or another person that makes me feel "LOVED" the way my dad did and even tho ive got a child of my own and should be a grown up its left me feeling lonely and insecure.i want to talk about my dad still a lot and feel that i havent got anyone to do that with and i wanted to know if anyone else on here had talked to "someone",like a counsellor and if it helped.maybe i just need to give it a lot more time i dont know,i just cant seem to move on from this stage.    thanx for reading xxxx                                

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi nikkye.........if you want to talk about your dad, do it on here . I have said this so many times, but I believe that when you loose someone close,even though you can't see them, they stay near, give yourself a chance to grieve. Sending you a hug

    love Carol x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    thankyou carol,i believe he is with me too,i do feel he is near me.i just feel like i havent seen him for such a long time and its getting my head round that its "forever",just miss him madly,miss his voice,miss his hugs,miss his company xxxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Nikkye tried to send you a comment twice before but it is just not sending.  We will feel like this for sometime yet to come yet I am sure - I am 3 months down the road too and it is not getting any easier at the moment having been back at work am now taking 2 weeks off - there is no set pattern about our grief - and it can be different for different people - I will miss my mum forever she was the best and its not right she is not still with us - but at least she is not in pain anymore.  thinking of you too.  Denise