One more sleep

We are all with you tomorrow and here's assuming its a blocked duct or something.

It happens a lot, people come on here worrying about lumps and then its ok. If it is, remember that feeling and be gad for the little things and appreciate the hugs etc.

Don't worry about your girl. Your mum will look after her really well and granny hugs are the best sort anyway. I always prefered my granny to look after me if I was ill, she made an extra fuss :)

If it isn't good news then we are all here ready and waiting with hugs and blankets and cake (of course) and support and advice and remember all these people posting to you like me...a lot of us have cancer and are here chatting to you and smiling and mucking about with our kids or grand kids and working and laughing and playing and swimming etc etc. It can be got through. I am proof.

Ok, now you go and cuddle your daughter and distract yourself with rubbish on the telly or something and don't do the what ifs cos that doesn't change anything. You can worry all night and tomorrow you will say well that was a waste of a worry, I could have done something fun instead and if it isn't good news, then does worrying change anything? no, it doesn't and you'll think oh I wish I had spent that last night of not knowing doing something fun instead of worrying.

My silly way of saying what will be will be and your mind going in circles won't change it one jot so go and do something fun and smile ....

Big hug and you will get some sleep because I will be at the bottom of your bed chasing those worry monsters away...

let us know how you got on and in the nicest possible way, I really hope we never have to see you again :)

Little My xxx

What she said Elly.

Pam